Re: How to forget some painful deep rooted memories?
There are mental and physical scars. We should learn to live with them. Sometimes the mental hurt more. She should not waste her life living through the eyes of her mom. You can't have everyone like you. Maybe if she thought of how people are always dealing with harsh things. Slaves in America were basically chattel, property. How much the worse! No families. They could be killed, beat, seperated at the whim of their masters and not educated. Yet even then there were slaves who came from that system and became homeowners and the like. Don't dig yourself a grave. Understand that this is what my mom thought, so what. Her thoughts are hers to have, and I should not sit about being guilty at her thoughts. There's a book called Born to Win that uses transactional analysis. It's sort of like a self-help book. I had to get it for college. Try reading that and using it.
The Vedas declared that the son rescueth the father from a hell called Put. ~ Celestials [Sec. 231 of Adi Parva - Mahabharata]
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