Dear Anira,


What do the scriptures state ? You are Purnah ... you cannot be touched by grief!

And what is our experience ?
I was in grief, some experience eliminated the grief.

This is called "Viparita Bhavana" ... contradictory cognition.
This needs to be eliminated ... thats vedanta sravana-manana-nidhidhyasana process. Thats true spirituality , isnt it ?

These experiences are all nice and good ... but they are good as long as they eliminate this viparita bhavana. That is, after the experience you should realize that you cannot be shaken by experiences and it was ignorance that made you feel that you were shaken by experience!

I am not sure if I have conveyed the point... Please let me know if I did not do that part properly.

Love!
Silence