Different strokes for different folks really.
Some Hindus are more orthodox than others; and it seems like the closer to metropolitan areas families are, the more lackadaisical they become in orthodoxy. Perhaps an 'okay' thing, as Hinduism is not rigid about societal rules like other societies around the world.
However, questioning the validity and then denigrating orthodoxy makes one look dumber than they look. And that is what prompted my truthful statement about families keeping menstruating women aloof. In most cases that I know, the women themselves know how to behave during those times so there aren't any issues. The only "issues" I have seen personally regarding this is a cousin, who studied in an international school in India, rebelled against her parents when she was asked to follow tradition (staying in her room during her periods). The parents left it after a while and although she doesn't follow the traditions strictly, she still doesn't go into the kitchen, pUjA room, and other important places during her menstrual cycle.
The funny thing is, I heard that in some Tantric traditions, menstrual blood is actually used in some rituals! Shocking for us I suppose but after all, one man's food, quite literally
, is another man's poison!
Last but not least, whether a woman is kept aloof or not, when she is menstruating, there is a pungent smell that is absolutely disgusting. Nothing against the person per se, but one must have the common sense to be aware that others might be affected adversely. If someone has body odor and refuses to wear deodorant, you are welcome to "hug and kiss" them but I'm staying away! Thank you very much.
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